Marriage is a sacred bond between two souls; a relationship in which two people promise to be companions for a lifetime.
In the first year of marriage, newlywed couple spend more and more time together to know one another and learn about each other’s hobbies, interests, personality, and habits.
Cheating on spouse is common
As time goes by, the pair starts losing affection and the excitement of their first days. And instead of trying to remedy their relationship, the lovers may try to inject excitement into their lives by having extramarital affairs. Men are more likely than women to cheat.
Now if you suspect your husband to be cheating on you or are worried about his extramarital affairs, you’d do well to keep reading. This article will provide you with tips for dealing with a cheating husband.
How can you find out if your husband is cheating on you? Consider the following warning signs.
Warning signs to catch cheating hubby
1. Decreased intimacy. He is frequently tired or lack interest in the relationship. This is one of the most consistent things a cheating man will do.
2. Your man seems bored. If your husband exhibits boredom with everything — with family, with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies and with life in general, it could be a sign that he is seeing someone else.
3. Stays till late at work. If your husband is working longer hours than usual at work, a big warning bell should go off.
4. Regular work habits change. If he is dressing up a little too well, wears cologne much more often than usual, and heads straight into the shower/bath after arriving home, you have reason to be alarmed.
5. Other behavior changes. If he is more negative, begins to speak more and more harshly to you, or suddenly becomes more attentive than usual, then also you may have sufficient cause for alarm.
6. Gets Defensive at the mention of infidelity.When your man erases the history on the cell phone and gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs, it could be one sign that he is actually hiding something from you.
7. Lying to you. If you find your hubby has been lying to you about a variety of things, you notice charges on credit card statement that don’t make sense, and when asked, can’t give a reasonable explanation.
When you find the aforementioned signs together, you might have a husband that is cheating on you. But remember, do not confront your spouse without some sort of evidence as it will only lead to more lies.
It is also advised to always verify before you confront him, and seek advice on the proper means to resolving this issue.
Men and women cheat on their spouses for different reasons. Men tend to cheat because they want something new, different, and exciting, and more physical stimulation, while women generally have more psychological and emotional motives for cheating. Revenge, boredom, and negligence could be other reasons that may cause a woman and man to look for love outside their primary relationship.
